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Plain-language guidance for parents

Everything I know about this process came from being on the other side of it. These are the things I find myself explaining most often to families — written out so you have them before the meeting, not after.

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· 5 min

Why Parents Need Someone on Their Side of the Table

What a CSE meeting looks like from the inside, why the room is not a fair fight even when everyone means well, and what changes when someone beside you has done it hundreds of times.

· 6 min

How to Read Your Child's IEP

Start at the back, not the front. Goals, service minutes, group size, direct versus consultative — and the three vague phrases that quietly turn a commitment into a possibility.

· 7 min

How to Prepare for a CSE Meeting

What to request in writing two weeks out, how to narrow fifteen concerns down to the three that will actually get addressed, and the follow-up email that does more than the meeting did.

· 8 min

What to Do When the District Says No

The three different "no"s that sound identical, how to ask for prior written notice, independent evaluations, and the steps that exist between a denial and hiring a lawyer.

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These posts are general. Your child is not. Call, text, or email and tell me what is going on.